Monday, January 21, 2013

Somewhere, There's Still A Woman

So, I had help with Jack today and she came with us on a few errands.  It was nice to get out of the house for once and on the way home I realized my middle son could use a haircut. While we were there I thought perhaps I should get one as well. I honestly don't remember when's the last time I got my hair trimmed, but if split ends could speak they'd confess it's been a while. I am under five feet and have huge hair like that princess in the Disney cartoon, "Brave," minus the flaming red gorgeousness.
 
It's not always easy having this big mop of curls, especially when the last thing you think about is caring for how you LOOK.  Not to mention the constant reminders I get from these stylists who often comment on my shaggy appearance, "Don't worry, we can fix that."  Like I've got the time to moisturize my strands.  There are some days I cannot remember if I brushed my teeth or not...I've honestly left the house not knowing at times...
 
Anyway, she gave me a great look, curls and all, for a fraction of what I normally pay and I am so happy to have found her.  She actually said, "you are beautiful," and I felt prettier than I had in a long time. From time to time I still wonder how haggard I must look to well-manicured moms and her comments made me feel wonderful.

Funny, she had to blow my hair straight to cut it evenly and I looked like a completely different lady when she was through, almost a modern woman. Jack kept coming over to touch it my hair, so silky and smooth and LONG for a few minutes, and he said, "You look like a mermaid, so pretty, Momma Laura ." And I really felt like a pretty lady afterall, because if anyone is brutually honest, it's Jack, and he must have meant what he said to muster up all those words. The best part is he probably doesn't care one bit what I look like on a daily basis, for more than anyone I know, he really understands what's inside is what really counts. But the look on his face told me he was glad I had a little bit of fun, and it was worth it just for that.
May you always recognize the blessings....

6 comments:

Ivy said...

Laura, you always are a BEAUTIFUL woman-- whether or not your hair is cut and styled, and you get to put on make-up. EVERYONE needs help and realizing that fact, and getting that help is the sign of an intelligent and proactive woman-- like YOU. Keep on sharing, and I will happily keep on READING! I am proud to count you as my friend.

~Ava Kinsey said...

Laura, I'm so glad you have started this blog. Even though I've known you since before you were pregnant with Jack, I did not know all the day-to-day struggles that you and your family go through. Thank you for sharing! I'm glad you have taken the opportunity to do things that help YOU. You have always been a beautiful and kind lady. I'm looking forward to reading more of your blog.

PS Chicken Dinner? That's hilarious!

said...

I love you, Ivy, my special angel.

said...

Thank you, Miss Ava, I am truly a Laura Ingalls Wilder Wannabee with the chicken now, right? Thank you so much for reading. You are terrific.

Unknown said...

Your blog is beautiful!!! You are truly a warrior....I understand how you feel...I'm the mom of two amazing boys, both on the spectrum...they have not only changed my life forever, but because of them I am a better person today!!
Love to read experiences on other moms!!!
xoxo
Johi

said...

So nice to meet you, Johi! You are truly a warrior too-God Bless You-thank you for reading and commenting.